I Think It's Beautiful That You're 256 Colors Too

people, mostly, are stupid about sex
they think it’s all big tits & dicks, positions, and quantity
that these things dictate quality
they all have these preconceived ideas of what it should be like, stereotypes, pornographic influence
sex is an art if only people had more freedom and openness towards it.
If only they were more willing to self educate, discuss, and explore.
but we’ve turned sex into a dirty hush, hush thing.
And the worst conception?
Thinking there are rules for sex.
everyone gets off on different stuff.
the sexiest fucking thing someone can do is ask me what i like.
and i’ll tell you flat out the what and how.
guys may say ” you tell me to do something, that’s a good way to not get it”
well for one, that’s ignorant and your ego problem, not mine
but if youre eating me out for example
and I say:
“omg that’s so good, just go a little faster”
and you don’t
not my problem when you feel inadequate because i don’t cum.
assuming i want something though, oh man.
That can go horribly too.
like…
if you start to face fuck me while i go down on you
and i’m not into that shit; you didn’t ask?
i will conclude your bj right there.
because that’s rude
and vomit inducing. Haha.
And, sadly, some dudes do not care to ask…
and assume I wanna be fucked like a porn star every time
wronggggg
and women in porn most often give horrible sexual performance
speed and quantity rather than calculated, quality
portraying this image that all women love anal, cock sucking, objectifying, rough sex.
And I’m not saying some chicks don’t dig that.
My point is, they don’t ALL dig that ALL the time.
the fact of the matter is, there is no right or wrong way to do it
no formulas or rules
i mean you have your basics; friction, stimulation, lube is nice. haha
but the lack of restriction or rules?
that’s what makes sex so amazing
exploring yourself and your partner and seeing what gets you there
communicating with your bodies
THAT’S what it’s all about